Invite-only · Now inviting Bay Area · Toronto · New York / NJ
Itwaswritten.
Kissmet is invite-only dating for the South Asian diaspora. Join the waitlist and your invite code arrives as your city opens — the right one was always yours.
Launching soon on iOS & Android — get notified
the waitlist
01Live · the invite line
The line for an invite is growing.
The invite line, live — updated as the community grows. Tap a city to make it yours.
02Built for us
No code-switching.
No explaining yourself.
Kissmet is built for the South Asian diaspora — so cultural fluency is the baseline, not a filter you have to set. Values, family, faith, ambition, language, the food you grew up on: all understood, none to translate.
From the South Bay to the city — engineers, founders, and the families who raised them.
- A profile that gets the whole picture — community, languages, what “serious” means to you.
- From Family — the people who know you best can put someone in front of you, with boundaries.
- A concierge that’s part guide, part auntie with boundaries.
03How it works
Invite-only, on purpose.
Kissmet is a club, not a feed. Every member arrives by invite, every city opens deliberately — so every match is worth your time.
Request your invite
Kissmet is invite-only. Join the waitlist — it’s free, your place is saved, and a friend’s code gets you straight in.
Your code arrives
We open each city slowly and keep it balanced, so the matches are real. When it’s your turn, your invite code lands in your inbox.
See why you match
Every match arrives with a values-based compatibility breakdown — you know it’s real before you say hello.
Meet with intention
Fewer, better conversations that are actually going somewhere. The opposite of swipe-and-forget.
04Compatibility, visualized
Matched on what actually matters.
Not just a face and a vibe. Kissmet scores compatibility across the things this community cares about — intent, family, faith, community, language, ambition — and shows you exactly why you fit.
“Written in the stars — you & Meera K. align on what matters most.”
Illustrative — your real breakdown is generated from your profile and theirs, in-app.
05The moment
And when it clicks —
it was written.
From her card in your deck to chai on Saturday. This is the whole app, doing the thing it was built to do.
She shows up in your deck
Selfie-verified, 91% match, and a first line you actually want to answer.
You both say yes
No games. Threads this strong don’t appear every day.
…and it’s chai on Saturday
Real conversation from the first message — the app said 84%, but clearly it undercounted.
06Trust, made visible
Real people. Verified. Safe to be yourself.
Safety isn’t a settings page you have to find — it’s the front door. Every profile is verified in layers, and verified profiles get shown first and matched 2× more.
Contact verified
Blocks duplicate and burner accounts before they ever reach you.
Selfie verified
A quick selfie confirms photos are really them. No catfish, no surprises.
Invite-only
Every member arrives by invite code — there’s nothing to game your way past.
LinkedIn (optional)
Adds a verified career badge — never shown without your consent.
Balanced by design. The waitlist is gently gender-balanced so the community stays healthy from day one — better for everyone, safer for everyone.
08Where it’s happening
Now inviting in three cities. Coming to yours.
Invites are going out in the Bay Area, Toronto, and New York / New Jersey. Everywhere else, the waitlist is open — and the cities asking loudest open next.